Dearest loved ones,
We had our 16 week prenatal appointment yesterday. We were so
excited to hear our little baby's heartbeat again, which we had
previously heard at our 12 week appointment. Our very loving OB tried
for about three minutes to locate the heartbeat with the Doppler
without any success. He immediately sent us to the ultrasound
technician, who was kind and squeezed us in between appointments.
After only a few moments of looking at the ultrasound, it became
apparent that there were a few things that were definitely not right.
The ultrasound tech confirmed that our baby's heart had indeed stopped
beating. We are still waiting for the blood tests and for the
diagnosis to be confirmed by the pathologist, but they said that it
was definitely caused by a genetic defect and involved a cystic
hygroma (a large growth on the back of our baby's neck).
Although we are deeply saddened to lose our baby, we know that
Heavenly Father loves us and our baby and we trust in his plan. We are
so grateful for all of your love and support. Thank you for your love
and understanding.
Love,
Dave & Anna
Anna I'm so sorry. No one should ever have to lose a child. Chad and I will remember you guys in our prayers. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to ask.
ReplyDeleteAnna, I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say. I have never lost a baby, but I have been pregnant and I know how instantly in love and attached you get to your baby. Always remember that Heavenly Father never gives us trials we can't handle, so while this probably seems completely unbearable, He knows how strong you really are. You are a very strong woman, even if you don't feel strong right now. Love and prayers to you and Dave.
ReplyDelete: ( I am so sorry, Anna and Dave. Your sweet baby must have just been too precious to live here and just needed the tiny little body. I will keep you in my prayers. I am glad to hear your positive outlook. You are amazing. So many wonderful blessings will be coming your way, I know it. Love you.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you. I wish I were there to help you, but know that the three of you will be in my prayers. All my love from D.C., Camille
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry anna and dave, I will be remembering you in our prayers:) love nat P.
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry! I can't imagine what you are going through, but I know that you two are the most amazing people. We love you both! We will pray for you to feel comforted at this time.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this news, Anna. I hope you can find peace & comfort during this time.
ReplyDeleteWe are so saddened to hear about your loss. We love you both and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteAnna, I have no good words to say. Just that I'm thinking about you, and shedding a few tears for you. I remember how painful it was to miscarry our first baby, and I can only imagine how much more difficult it would have been at a later stage in the pregnancy. I hope others are serving you in the same way you have served me and so many others during this hard time.
ReplyDeleteThis makes me so sad. You are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Anna and Dave. This breaks my heart.You two are incredible people and so strong. We will be thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteThat really is heart-breaking news. I'm so so sorry you two have to go through that. You'll be in our prayers.
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ReplyDeleteWe love you guys, and will keep you in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you Anna! Your faith and relationship with Dave is inspiring.
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ReplyDeleteAnna and Dave- We are so sad to hear your news. We experienced a miscarriage just last month and it was very, very hard. Give yourself all the time you need to grieve. It's ok to hurt and be sad. But it will get better. We love you both so very much. Becky and Brian
ReplyDeleteWe sure love you guys and look up to your strength and maturity so much. Our hearts go out to you. Love and prayers from our house to yours!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. This is such sad news. Kendon and I will keep both of you in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is aching for you. When we experienced all the pregnancy trials with the twins, I remember the infinite prayers that each week when we went to have an ultrasound, there would be two heartbeats. But we were prepared for the worst, yet hoped for the best. I can only imagine what the loss must feel like when you weren't prepared or expecting it at all. I came to know just how very much you can love your little one before you even know the sex. You are already parents. Remember that. You are amazing, and our family is praying for you.
ReplyDeleteAnna and Dave,
ReplyDeleteAs someone who just had a miscarriage, I feel your pain and sadness. I know what you are going through is hard and peace will come. I send all my love and sincere prayers to you.
love you anna. i'm so sorry. my heart aches for you. give yourself time. i too have felt your pain. i love your faith in your Heavenly Father. that will make all the difference. He loves you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Anna. Reading this made me cry. My heart definitely goes out to you. And you are in my prayers..
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